Working with Me
Most of my clients reach me at a turning point. They’ve outgrown the life they built but don’t know what’s next. They’ve followed the script — successful careers, picture-perfect lives — yet below the surface something asks to be seen. Sometimes it’s burnout, frustration, or a growing sense of disconnection. Other times, it’s the weight of unresolved wounds with parents, the quiet tension with a spouse, or the way their own children unknowingly reflect back the parts of themselves they’ve ignored. A deep longing reveals itself and grows louder. They begin to sense the possibility of a life free from constant struggle and an unwavering peace that’s not dependent on the chaos of external circumstances. But where to look?
That’s where I come in. As an ex-software engineer, I now help people with something trickier than code — their own minds. We run subconscious programs, repeating patterns, and mistaking thoughts for reality. Real transformation happens when we see through these illusions; when we uncover clarity, ease, and the knowing that we are more than our fears and limitations.
“Life is a mirror and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into it.”
– Ernest Holmes
My approach blends intuitive guidance, deep self-inquiry, and practical coaching with a systemic lens. I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help clients work with their inner parts, integrate post-awakening shadow work, and navigate the complexities of transformation. My background in Family Constellations informs a broader perspective on the generational and systemic influences shaping our lives. Additionally, my studies in children’s developmental psychology have given me insight into how unmet childhood needs shape our subconscious patterns, influencing our relationships, self-perception, and emotional responses in adulthood.
Whether it’s resolving deep-seated patterns, glimpsing our true nature for the first time or post-awakening deepening, our work together is a dynamic and deeply personal exploration.
The Real Shift
This isn’t about adding more ideas — it’s about stripping away what was never true. When we choose to listen to that inner call for Self-discovery, something shifts. Slowly (and then suddenly rather fast) life opens up through the recognition of our true nature as a boundless ocean of unconditional love. And everything else follows; practicalities of life simply fall into place. In the words of Socrates, “to know thyself is the beginning of wisdom.”
This might sound mystical, even esoteric, yet it is the most natural thing in the world. We are waking up to something that has always been here — boundless, steady, and fully available to every one of us. It’s not an abstract concept but an intimate reality that, once glimpsed, ignites a longing to come back home to it. This longing is what propels you beyond yourself – into a no-thing so vast and beautiful words can’t do it justice.
“The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.”
– W.B. Yeats
Walking the Path Together
If you’re here, something in you already knows. Maybe you’re ready to go deeper. If so, I’m here to help you explore it as a companion on this breathtakingly wild journey.
This is not just self-exploration; it’s an adventure, a leap into the unknown, and a return home all at once. The path is yours, but you don’t have to walk it alone. As you read this, if something inside you is stirring, calling, nudging you toward something more — it’s time.